Whether they’re training for marathons, volunteering in the community or spending time with their dogs, sisters Lauren and Holly share much of life alongside their mum, Mel. Together, they embody the kindness, compassion and discipline that appear to run in the family.
That connection extends into their professional lives, with Lauren and Holly working together at The Wollongong Clinic, while Mel works as Director of Clinical Services at South Coast Private Hospital.
Mel’s professional journey is one both sisters remember vividly, with Holly joking that their mum began nursing studies while they were “moody teenagers.” But it was the commitment and determination they witnessed during that time that left a lasting impression.
“Every time I get frustrated with my commitments to work, studies and my volunteer role, I remind myself that at least I don’t also have two teenagers to look after,” Holly jokes.
“She’s a good role model for me, and importantly for other nurses, especially anyone who might be afraid to begin studying as a mature-aged student.”
Lauren agrees, describing her mum as both a role model and an inspiration.
“She has always worked incredibly hard against all odds to get where she is today, and I am so proud to be her daughter,” Lauren says.
“I think anyone who has had the pleasure of knowing her has, in some way been inspired to attempt something they may never have believed was possible.”
Although their paths do not regularly cross at work, both Lauren and Holly agree that having a mum who understands the demands of working in mental health means a supportive ear and sound advice are never too far away.
“I can’t imagine not being able to debrief about work on the drive home,” Holly says. “It’s nice to have someone to rely on no matter what, and I know she can’t get too annoyed with me, even when I ask silly questions.”
“Occasionally, I’ll call her for advice on a situation, and we always find solutions together when challenges arise,” Lauren says.
“It’s also nice working with your mum because sometimes you get lunch breaks together and she still gives you lifts to work.”
When speaking about her daughters, Mel beams with pride.
“I’m proud to know I’ve raised two girls who help people and do so with kindness,” she says.
“I know they may not work in mental health for the rest of their careers — although I hope they do — but I’m reassured knowing their time here has given them skills they will carry with them wherever they go. Skills that will positively impact people throughout their lives.”
“I also love that I’ve been able to show my kids that if you truly love what you do, you never really have to work a day in your life. I’m living proof that’s true.”
